Determine the Invitation Wording:

Before you start addressing the invitations, decide on the wording you want to use. Traditional invitations usually include the hosts’ names, the request line, the names of the couple, date, time, and venue details. Choose the wording that best reflects your style and the formality of your wedding.

Addressing the Outer Envelope:

For Married Couples:

Mr. and Mrs. John Smith

For Unmarried Couples Living Together:

Ms. Jane Smith

Mr. John Doe

For Families with Children:

Mr. and Mrs. John Smith

Susie, Tommy, and Emma

For Single Guests:

Ms. Emily Johnson

Addressing the Inner Envelope (If Using Double Envelopes):

For Married Couples:

Mr. and Mrs. Smith

For Unmarried Couples Living Together:

Ms. Smith

Mr. Doe

For Families with Children:

Mr. and Mrs. Smith

Susie, Tommy, and Emma

For Single Guests:

Ms. Johnson

Special Cases:

Same-Sex Couples:

Use the same format as for heterosexual couples, following their preferences and comfort levels.

Military Titles:

Use appropriate military titles and ranks, if applicable.

Professional Titles:

Use professional titles such as Dr., Reverend, or Judge, if applicable.

Guest Plus One:

Address the invitation to the invited guest, and add “and Guest” if they are allowed to bring a plus one.

Consider Handwriting vs. Printing:

Handwriting the addresses adds a personal touch, but if your guest list is extensive, consider using a calligraphy service or printing labels to maintain a polished look.

Check for Accuracy:

Double-check all names and addresses for accuracy before sending out the invitations to avoid any embarrassing mistakes.

When addressing wedding invitations to married couples, it is traditional and respectful to use both partners’ full names. For example:

• Mr. and Mrs. John Smith

If the wife has chosen not to change her last name or if the couple prefers a more modern approach, you can address the invitation as:

• Mr. John Smith and Mrs. Jane Johnson

Always use the names the couple prefers, and if you are unsure, it’s best to ask them directly to ensure accuracy and respect their preferences.

How do I address wedding invitations to unmarried couples living together?

Addressing invitations to unmarried couples living together can be done by listing their names separately. For example:

• Ms. Jane Smith
• Mr. John Doe

This approach acknowledges their individual identities while still inviting them as a couple. If the couple has children together, you can include the children’s names on the invitation as well:

• Ms. Jane Smith
• Mr. John Doe
• Sarah and Ethan (Children’s names)

How do I address wedding invitations for guests with professional or military titles?

When addressing wedding invitations for guests with professional or military titles, it’s important to include the appropriate titles on the envelope. For example:

• Doctor and Mrs. Robert Johnson (for a guest with a doctorate)
• Captain and Mrs. Emily Davis (for a guest with a military rank)

If one member of the couple holds a professional or military title, and the other does not, you can choose to include the title or not, based on the couple’s preference. Always use the titles the guests prefer, and if you are uncertain, it’s polite to inquire to ensure accuracy and show respect for their achievements.